Tuesday, 04 February 2025 13:34

HIV positive man admits sleeping with over 400 women, cites depression, reckless past

In a shocking revelation, a Nigerian man identified as Chika Wonder has confessed to having unprotected sex with over 400 women while knowingly living with HIV.

Speaking on a recent episode of ‘Doyin’s Corner’, Chika detailed his reckless sexual history, struggles with depression, and the stigma he faced after his diagnosis.

Chika disclosed that he was diagnosed with HIV seven years ago while working at a photography studio in Kano State. Before receiving the diagnosis, he had already been highly promiscuous, claiming to have slept with around 1,000 women in total.

“I got into photography with a renowned photographer in Nigeria and was posted to Kano. Because I was promiscuous, I started having sex with anybody I saw. It was cheap there,” he recalled.

According to him, he frequently paid women for unprotected sex, arguing that protected sex did not give him pleasure.

“I would offer to pay more just to have unprotected sex. I would even drink to get myself in the mood. I was sleeping with different women, paying as little as N700 for sex and N300 for a room,” he admitted.

However, his lifestyle soon took a toll on his health, as he began experiencing severe fever, diarrhea, and physical weakness. Upon falling seriously ill, he was advised by his colleagues to undergo medical tests, where he was eventually diagnosed with HIV.

Before his HIV diagnosis, Chika admitted to manipulating church members by pretending to suffer from different ailments, including asthma, arthritis, and even HIV, to solicit financial assistance.

“I would visit churches like House on the Rock and lie about my health. Because I was eloquent, I knew how to gain people’s trust, and they would offer me money,” he said.

After testing positive for HIV, Chika initially appeared unbothered. However, the stigma and discrimination he faced from people—including being sent away from his workplace—began to affect him deeply.

“I didn’t care at first, but the stigma started immediately. I was kicked out of the company. That’s when it hit me,” he explained.

 

Despite knowing his HIV status, Chika continued engaging in unprotected sex, citing depression and lack of pleasure with protection.

“I continued having sex with people unprotected. I did not care anymore. Depression kills your conscience. I had unprotected sex for seven years, and within that period, I slept with over 400 women,” he admitted.

At one point, Chika attempted suicide, an incident that was widely reported in the media.

“I tried to take my own life. All the blogs carried the news. From that moment, my life started to change,” he said.

Chika revealed that he only began taking his HIV medication on November 25, 2024, after years of reckless behavior.

Now, he says he is focused on raising awareness about HIV and mental health to prevent others from making the same mistakes he did.

“I am out here to create awareness. Depression kills your conscience. People need to understand that HIV is not a death sentence, but reckless behavior only worsens the situation,” he emphasized.

Chika’s revelations have sparked outrage and concern, with health experts and legal analysts warning about the criminal and ethical implications of knowingly spreading HIV.

Dr. Michael Onwubuya, a public health specialist, stated that intentionally transmitting HIV is a criminal offense in Nigeria and could result in legal consequences.

Similarly, mental health expert Dr. Grace Adeyemi stressed the importance of psychological support for people diagnosed with HIV, as untreated depression can lead to self-destructive behavior.

“Stigma can push individuals into depression, and when that happens, they may engage in risky behaviors. Counseling and proper mental health support are key,” she explained.

Chika’s story underscores the urgent need for greater awareness about HIV, mental health, and the dangers of reckless sexual behavior. Experts urge better access to counseling, education on safe sex practices, and stronger legal enforcement to prevent similar cases.

[NationalDaily]



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