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A video of a woman who confessed to conniving with her boyfriend to make her husband impotent has surfaced online.

In the now-viral video, the lady revealed that she took the decision to facilitate her divorce from her husband.

The lady also disclosed that her boyfriend took her to an undisclosed place where she was given a concoction to make her husband impotent.

“My boyfriend and I agreed to kill my husband’s manhood so it will be like his manhood is not working,” she said.

“(With that) it’ll be like it’s not me who is denying him sex. It’s not me who is being the bad wife but it is him whose manhood is not working and all. But I know where the problem is coming from.”

She said after divorcing her husband, her plan was to marry her boyfriend.

“That was the idea that eventually I will seek for divorce, then when we call people to sit, family and pastors and tell them that he is not performing and I’m young and I need to be satisfied, then I will move on. I’m still young and very energetic and sexually active,” she said.

“I wasn’t (scared), because I was in love. I’m actually in love with him, we were in love even now I’m in love with him but the tables are turning right now, and that is what is troubling me right now.”

She, however, cried out that her boyfriend is planning to abandon her for another woman.

“After all that we’ve been through, after all, that he made me do, both of us, now he’s telling me that he found love, and he’s getting married and he wants to call it quits and I’m not letting him go,” she said.

“So, right now, I’m also thinking whether to give him the same medicine, the same dose I gave to my husband.”

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Matchmaker and relationship coach, Lara Kudayisi, talks her journey and other issues

Tell us about your background.

I am the first of four children. I was born and raised in Ogun State.

What services does Lara Kudayisi International offer?
Lara Kudayisi International focuses on therapy, coaching and certification. My organisation helps to heal people from trauma and emotional pain, and we make them happy afterwards. We are registered with the Corporate Affairs Commission.


Some people have said that matchmakers and relationship experts have difficulties in keeping relationships. Is this true?

What people do not know is that one cannot use people’s personal lives to judge their professional lives. Matchmaking is a professional service and it has nothing to do with the life of a person. This means that if I am a matchmaker, I must have been certified and it does not affect my personal life. Also, I am a cognitive behavioural therapist, but that does not exclude me from going through emotional pain.

What do you do when you go through emotional issues?

I have my own coaches and therapists. A coach needs a coach and a therapist needs therapy. Sometimes, therapists can have an emotional attachment to the stories that people share with them and it can make them depressed. Even as a professional, I still talk to my therapist as often as I can.

You once spoke about having 15 abortions. Why did you decide to share your story?


I started (sharing my story) 10 years ago and it was a divine instruction so that others can learn from my story. From then till now, I have grown to be a relationship therapist and life coach so that I can help other people who have similar experiences with me.

How have you been able to cope with the stereotype and stigmatisation you faced since you shared your story?

All those things do not matter to me because I know what I am doing and I have healed. It does not define me because it is my past. I am no longer the person that did those abortions. So, criticisms about my past life do not get to me.

Have you found closure with all the men you were involved with?

One does not need to go to people to find closure. That is what I teach people in the therapy programme I run. Closure is what you get by yourself. I have gone through years of therapy and I have got closure with all the men I was involved with. That helped me to heal and be able to talk about my story. I do not harbour any anger or hurt anymore and it is all part of my journey.


You once spoke about the pressure your father put on you to get married. How were you able to cope with it?

My dad is dead now but I got married when he was still alive. The pressure he put on me back then got to me because I had not healed from the trauma of my past. I know that if he was still alive, he would be disappointed that I am now a divorcee. My mother has got over it though.

I went public with my abortion story even before I got married. My ex-husband met me sharing my abortion story, which was what attracted him to me. My marriage had nothing to do with my past and this was the inspiration behind my book, ‘Why the Matchmaker’s Marriage Failed’.

Do your past experiences make you have trust issues?


I trust men a lot and I will be remarrying soon. What makes one not to trust men after heartbreak is because one has not healed. One has to pursue healing because it is very important. When one has healed, the kind of people one will attract and have a relationship with will be very different, and there will be nothing to fear anymore. Therapy is a life saver but a lot of people do not know that.

What lessons have you learnt as a single mum?

Being a single mum is really not an easy thing. It can be quite challenging when one is the primary caregiver. However, it has taught me that I am resilient and can do many things that I never thought I could do in the past. I have also learnt that if one is not ready to have a child and that person does, it will have an effect in that person’s life forever. So, it is important that one has to be prepared before becoming a parent.

How will you describe your relationship with God?

My relationship with God is fantastic. He is my friend, saviour and father. He is the one who directs me. Many people think that because I have done 15 abortions, I might be a bad girl or ungodly. God is very merciful and not judgmental like human beings. If one is remorseful and genuinely repentant after committing a sin, God will forgive that person and still make effective use of that person.

The winner of season 7, Big Brother Naija level-up edition will on Sunday walk away with N100 million grand prize. The show which was launched on July 23 and 24 began with 24 housemates.

The housemates came in with their A-game to the ‘level-up opening night as they were introduced by the show host, Ebuka Obi- Uchendu.

Unlike previous editions where boys were introduced before the girls, this year the housemates were introduced in levels. Also, this year’s grand prize was increased by N10 million.

The level-up season has had several twists that left devoted fans of the program with lasting memories.

DAILY POST highlights five remarkable moments from the level-up season.

Level 1 and 2

At the launch of this year’s show, Biggie, in a surprise twist, divided the housemates into two different houses namely level 1 and level 2.

The organizers did not only give viewers two channels on DSTV and Gotv to enjoy the show but also changed the eviction process.

The creation of the two levels caused fierce competition as viewers struggled not to miss any action on both levels simultaneously.

Before the merger of the two levels, the winner of the Head of House (HoH) games from either Level 1 or 2 house, saves the rest of his housemates in the same level from eviction and nominations.

The level 2 housemates were nicknamed, ‘the trenches house with more talents while the Level 1 housemates walked with an air of superiority as they occupied a beautiful house and dominated the much-coveted head of house, HOH game.

Unfortunately for level 2 housemates, Level 1 housemates dominated the race for the (HoH) position and were not nominated or evicted from the show until both levels merged.

Beauty’s eviction

On Aug. 7 2022, Beauty Tukura, was disqualified for breaking and disobeying the house rules.

Beauty had during the first week of the show received a strike for an altercation with Ilebaye. She had pulled Ilebaye’s wig after a war of words and on Aug.6, threw her wig, and glasses and also attempted to break Groovy’s microphone during a misunderstanding.

She was eventually issued a double strike by Big Brother. This made Beauty the first housemate to receive a strike and also get disqualified in the second week of the show.

Unveiling of the riders

The show took a new turn with the introduction of two “rider housemates”

The duo, Rachael and Chizzy, were introduced during the third week eviction night show.

Obi-Uchendu had explained that the rider housemates were Biggie’s agents, who would not have the opportunity to win the N100 million grand prize.

According to him, they can not also be evicted and will be opportuned to play till the end of the show.

He said the rider housemates would be participating in all house tasks and every other activity. As the competition progressed Chizzy became the fans-favourite and the riders were eventually evicted on Friday night.

Amaka’s disqualification

Amaka’s eviction came as a shock to fans of the show after she became a victim of Biggie’s twist.

Viewers were taken aback by her exit when she was nominated for immediate eviction. This came after Biggie asked all the housemates to nominate two fellow contestants for immediate eviction and Amaka got the highest nominations.

Amaka left the house leaving some of her fellow housemates emotional. That was the first time such an eviction process occurred and the fans were not happy that they couldn’t save her.

Some viewers believed Amaka, who showed so much content and vibes in the House and was saved by her fans twice, was a strong contender for the prize.

Hermes’ polyamorous relationship

The connection between Hermes and Allysn was undoubtedly one of the season’s highlights. Even though Hermes informed Allysn that he has two partners outside the house, the latter remained close to him until she was evicted two weeks ago.

Hermes had explained that he was polyamorous, a kind of partnership that leaves enough room for everyone in it to grow individually and collectively.

After his eviction, he said he would love to have Allysyn as his third girlfriend but she said she would like to focus on herself and respect his dynamic relationship even though she has a genuine connection with him.

Fake housemates

Another talking point of the level-up season was the introduction of two fake housemates.

Ebuka had during the second week of the show introduced Modella and Deji as two fake housemates and handed them a secret mission in their respective levels.

Deji was told to cause problems in the house by complaining about his colleagues in level 1 while Modella was instructed to cause a rift among lovers in the house.

Ebuka had said the duo cannot win the show or be nominated for eviction. He added that they can be told to leave the house anytime.

However, Deji delivered his task but Modella struggled to cause a rift between lovers on her level as she complained that she had warmed up to the couple she would have loved to take on.

Controversial level three house

Viewers were shocked by the creation of another level 3 house as the show entered its closing weeks.

The newly furnished level 3 house accommodated housemates Doyin, Eloswag, and Chomzy who were evicted on September 11 2022.

The new twist shocked viewers when Ebuka announced that although the housemates had been evicted, Big Brother decided to retain them as guests in the house till Sept. 18, when they will be moved to join the other housemates.

Ebuka explained that the evicted housemates will return to the main house to participate in house tasks with other housemates, a twist some viewers claimed was unjust to some housemates like Amaka whose eviction was ‘heartbreaking.

[DailyPost]

A final year student of the University of Cross River State (UNICROSS), Blessing Kona Udie, has been identified as one of the four persons gruesomely murdered in Abuja.

The microbiology student, along with a popular Abuja-based singer, Chop Boii, and two others, were brutally murdered by unknown assailants in the Gwarimpa area of Abuja on Tuesday, September 27.

 
 
 

It was gathered that their fingers were cut off by the assailants, who also used their blood to write on the wall.

 

The spokesperson of the FCT Police Command, DSP Josephine Adeh, who confirmed the incident, said the police have launched an investigation to unravel the mystery behind the attack.

Meanwhile, family, friends, and course mates of the deceased have trooped to social media to mourn her sad demise.

See more photos of Blessing below,

 

 

A Twitter user, who took to the platform, to announce the tragic news wrote,

The Twitter user said the tragic incident happened on Tuesday night, September 27. He claimed that Chop Boii was working on a new song with his producer friend and two others when they were attacked.

“Yesterday my friend and three of his friends were butchered and killed In Gwarimpa at their house and their fingers were cut and their blood was used to wrote on the wall Rip chop Abuja will miss you. You were just at the wrong place at wrong time I still love you.

“He was producing with his producer a friend and his producers girlfriend That they came for the producer and his girlfriend but unluckily for them they were also there and the butchered them all even wrote on the wall with their blood cut their fingers off He was just damage.” The Twitter user wrote.

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A middle aged man, Onyedinka Esiala, caught using children suffering from fake stomach tumour to beg for alms claimed that his alleged boss, Uche, initiated the scam and gives the children unknown drugs to make their stomachs swell.

Esiala was exposed by a passerby identified as Benefit, at Mile 2 area of Lagos State on Wednesday, September 28, 2022.


While speaking with Vanguard, the suspect alleged that Uche brings kids to Lagos every year he travels to the Eastern part of the country.

He said, “My name is Onyedinka and I am from Enugu State. My oga is Uche. When I came from the village, I did not get any work to do; then he told me to be helping him to be taking these children out for begging.” he said.

“Whenever I am about to take the kids from Orile to Mile 2 pedestrian bridge, my Oga will give them drugs though I don’t know the name of the medicines which will make their stomach get swollen for some hours, and the kids’ mothers are aware of the business. Their mothers stay in the village,”

 


The children were staying with them in the village before they gave them to my Oga to come to Lagos. The girls are not my sisters, but their mother often brings them to my Oga. Some kids stay a year with us, and half of the money made from begging is sent to their mothers in the village. My Oga does give them black drugs. I don’t know the name of the drugs. My Oga did not tell me the name but it’s a black drug.

“My Oga brought one of the kids last year December while the other girl has spent three months with us. There is a boy among them but did not come today because he is not feeling too well.

“We do not come every day. We sometimes come three times in a week. My oga’s name is Uche and we have another set of people that stay at Ajagbadi, but I don’t know the exact place. The person that handles that of Ajagbadi is different from the one handling us in Mile 2. The name is Goodluck, but he is currently not in Lagos, he travelled, and his younger brother is in charge,” he added

After thorough questioning, Oyedinka was taken to the Nigeria Police Station Area E, Festac and handed over to the police for further interrogation.

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American R&B singer Robert Sylvester Kelly known professionally as R. Kelly, who has been found guilty of sex crimes twice this year has been asked pay at least $300,000 in reparations to some of his victims, a federal judge said.

U.S. District Judge Ann Donnelly, during a hearing in Brooklyn, stated that the money will reimburse two women, going by the names of Jane and Stephanie, for the expense of therapy and herpes treatment.


According to report, once the cost of Stephanie’s prescription has been recalculated by the prosecution, that amount is likely to increase.

Recall that after a jury found Kelly guilty of racketeering and other offenses, Donnelly sentenced Kelly to 30 years in prison in June.


At his sentencing, Kelly was branded “the pied piper of R&B” as he came face to face with several of his victims who detailed his “deplorable and inexplicable” abuse, which took place over decades.

According to the prosecution, the 55-year-old Kelly used his fame and fortune over the course of more than two decades to entice women and minor girls into his orbit for sex.

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Coolio, who shot to fame after releasing global hits such as “GangSta’s Paradise” and “C U When You Get There” has died at 59.

The rapper who achieved huge success in the 90s died on Wednesday 28 September in Los Angeles while visiting a friend.


Coolio’s longtime manager, Jarez, revealed that he was found dead in the bathroom, lying on the floor. According to Jarez, Coolio went to the bathroom at his friend’s house, but when he didn’t come after a while, the friend kept calling for him but there was no response. And eventually he went in and found him dead on the floor.

The friend called EMTs, who arrived and pronouced Coolio dead. According to Jarez, paramedics suspect he suffered cardiac arrest. An official cause of death has not been confirmed.


Coolio, whose real name was Artis Leon Ivey Jr., came up on the Los Angeles rap scene in the late 80# buy blew up globally in 1995 when he released “Gangsta’s Paradise” for the soundtrack of the Michelle Pfeiffer film, “Dangerous Minds.”
The song reached #1 on the Billboard Hot 100 and stayed there for three weeks.

Paradise became his signature hit, including 1994’s “Fantastic Voyage”, which hit #3 on Billboard’s 100, as well as “1,2,3,4 (Sumotin’ New)” and “It’s All the Way Live (Now)”


GangSta’s Paradise became one of the most successful rap songs of all time. Aside topping on the Billboard Hot 100 for three weeks, it was the No.1 single of 1995 in the United States for all genres.

And was a global hits topping the United Kingdom, Ireland, France, Germany, Italy, Sweden, Austria, Netherlands, Norway, Switzerland, Australia and New Zealand charts.


It was the second-best-selling of 1995 in the UK. At the 1996 Grammy Awards, the song won Coolio a Grammy Award for Best Rap Solo Performance.

“GangSta’s Paradise” opened the way for Coolio’s search for stardom. It was not meant to be included on one of Coolio’s studio album, but its success led to Coolio not only putting it on his next album but also making it the title track.


The song interpolates the chorus and music of the song “Pastime Paradise” by Stevie Wonder, which was recorded nearly 20 years earlier.

“GangSta’s Paradise” was certified 2x Platinum by the RIAA and sold more than 2 million copies globally.

Coolio was born on August 1 1963 in Monessen Pennsylvania and later moved to Crompton, California. After attending Compton Community College, he worked as volunteer firefighter and security at the Los Angeles International Airport before becoming a rapper.

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A fake medical doctor, Andrew Godwin has been arrested by the Joint Taskforce Base 14 over the death of a patient in Boi, Bogoro Local Government Area of Bauchi State.

According to Nigerian Tribune, the suspect was arrested on Sunday, September 25, 2022, for carrying out an unsuccessful surgery which led to the death of the 45-year-old patient identified as Joshua Haruna.


The deceased, a resident of Gambar Lere in the LGA, was until his death the former ward Chairman of APC, Boi C ward in Bogoro and Campaign Coordinator of Sen. Lawal Yahaya Gumau.

The aforementioned publication reported that the suspect has been living in Gambar Sabon Layi in Tafawa Balewa for a few years now where he carries out his illegal business on unsuspecting members of the public.

The suspect, who operates as a medical chemist has not acquired any medical certificate or approval from the relevant authorities to operate such facility.


The Nasarawa State indigene was reported to have cut open the stomach of his patient and left like that till the following day.

An unconfirmed report from the community revealed that Mr Andrew Godwin had performed unsuccessful surgery on many people who later died as a result of the complications.

The JTF officer who arrested him, said the fake health worker has been handed him over to the Police in the Bogoro Division for further investigations.

The case has been transferred to Tafawa Balewa Police Station because Gambar Sabon Layi is in Tafawa Balewa LGA while Gambar Lere is located in Bogoro LGA.

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Popular media personality, Ifedayo Olarinde, popularly known as Daddy Freeze, has tied the knot with his long-time lover, Benedicta Elechi.

The couple got married in a private ceremony that was held in London, the United Kingdom.

 

The intimate ceremony was attended by only close friends and relatives. UK-based Nigerian preacher, Tobi Adegboyega, was also present at the event and was the groom, Daddy Freeze’s best man.

 

Photos and videos from the wedding have been shared online. See below,

 

 

Meanwhile, Daddy Freeze, who was previously married to Opeyemi but the marriage ended in 2014, has declared that he didn’t fail in his first marriage, but instead succeeded in divorcing himself from toxicity.

In a post shared via his Instagram page, Daddy Freeeze stated that anyone who walks out of a marriage isn’t a failure but a success.

According to him, those who failed in marriage are the ones who couldn’t come out of it alive.

“If anyone discriminates against you as a divorcee, stand up to them, beat your chest and say: I didn’t fail at marriage; instead I succeeded in divorcing myself from toxicity. Those who actually failed in marriage are the ones who couldn’t make it out alive! If you made it out of suffering alive, you are a success, NOT a failure! ~FRZ”, he wrote.

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Evicted Big Brother Naija Season 7 Housemate, Groovy has opened up on his relationship with Beauty and the reason he moved on to another female housemate Phyna, after her disqualification.

Naija News recalls that barely six days after Beauty was disqualified from the show for breaking the show rules, Groovy, during a Saturday night party, got intimate with Phyna.

 

During his post-eviction interview, media personality Ebuka Obi-Uchendu questioned him on how he could move on so quickly from Beauty.

Responding, the reality TV star said he had initially planned to hold back for at least one week but he felt they didn’t have something concrete going on before her disqualification.

The reality TV star added that Beauty also disrespected him, the more reason he also moved away from her.

In his word: “I’m not going to lie, in my mind I said I’m not gonna have anything to do with anybody for at least one week, I want to be concentrated because of the resentment I had towards Beauty I didn’t really feel there’s anything to hold back to.

“So I was like if am in a position where I see someone that I might like, oh I’m not going to do oh because of her, because she match me for ground.”

 
 
[NaijaNews]

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